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Be Yourself and Stay Unique


by: Nala Zakina

Being a woman born in a patriarchal environment is not easy. But that's not a reason to give up and give in to the situation. We must have strong internal and external motivation for adjustment. We are not able to control external factors or the environment around us. But we can control ourselves in responding to it.

Those who have a 'why' to live, can endure almost any 'how'.

           - Imaz 

When we are able to accept ourselves as a whole, we will not be afraid to support ourselves. It doesn't matter who goes. Don't expect empathy from others. And it doesn't matter if they like us or don't like us. Because we just enjoy life and fall in love with what we do every day. Stay the best version of yourself and don't compete with anyone.

Now is not the time to compare.

We are fully aware that weaknesses and strengths are inherent in humans. Therefore, the best focus is not on the shortcomings that we cannot change, but on the advantages or potentials that we can still optimize.

Women are often more emotional than men. But women who are adept at involving emotions will be able to be more rational in making decisions than men. This kind of ability is only possessed by those who are willing to grow and learn from life. Their respect and self-confidence is the principle of all their actions.

A woman who knows where her destination is going will not be easily influenced by something that is of no value. Women realize that she has full control and responsibility over every decision and their life. Women will always strive for themselves to be good, honorable, and educated individuals.

One of the most important things in this world is how we see ourselves. Don't listen to other people, because you are enough and worthy. Women need to have inner and outer peace. Keep your mind positive, because your thoughts will become your actions. You may be tired but don't give up.

So girls, do what makes you happy as long as it is with positive intentions. Pursue your goals and dreams. Dive into what your hobbies are. Have a soft side and a firm side as a foundation for self-respect. If we are able to take advantage of the time and opportunities that God has given us, then we won't have time to take care of other people's lives.

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