Learning From Your Mistakes

by: Beth Victoria Suwito

Have you ever made a mistake? If you have, then welcome to the club. Everyone has made mistakes because we are all just humans who make mistakes. Mistakes are simply a part of everyone’s daily routines. It’s a normal thing.

That’s why you shouldn’t dwell on the mistakes you’ve made. Regretting things and feeling sorry for yourself won’t do much. What you have to do is learn from them. Treat those mistakes like a lesson. Don’t beat yourself up over a small mistake. In order to grow, you have to learn from them.

Another thing is that you should also be patient with other people’s mistakes. Remember that it’s a human thing. People can’t be perfect. Everyone is learning. That’s why you should be patient with them.

Mistakes are just life’s little pebbles. You can stumble across them and you can trip from them. It’s not a huge boulder that’ll stop you from reaching your dreams. It’s a small mishap that could give you a valuable lesson.

Don’t think of mistakes as something that’ll ruin your life. Just try your best to not make the same mistake over and over again. It’s no use saying sorry and feeling bad if there isn’t any change in yourself. Learn from them and find out how you can prevent the same thing from happening.

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to not make mistakes. Instead, you should try your best to do whatever task is given. Try your best and all will be okay.

If anyone tries to shame you for your mistakes, simply say sorry and not do the same mistake again. The important part is what you do after the mistake.

So, let’s all grow together from the mistakes that we made!

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